FOR RELEASE: September 2003
TITLE: MAKING GOING BACK TO SCHOOL A SUCCESS
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The first day of school is an important event not only in a child's life, but
for parents as well. Starting off the school year with a good first day will
help shape a child's future attitude toward school and supports healthy growth
and development.
Parents can help prepare their children by recognizing the first day of school
as an important event and showing them that it marks the entrance into a new
universe of friendship, learning and adventure. Learning to like school relates
closely to an enjoyment of learning
A child's first school experience can contribute to a good or bad attitude
toward school in the years ahead. Parents
play an important role in making sure that children feel successful. Here are
some tips for parents on making the first day of school a hit.
□ Talk with your child about their fears and concerns,
likes and dislikes, as well as the fun and importance of school. Treat going to
school as part of the normal course of events. Let your child see your positive
attitude toward school.
□ Prepare your child for the new school experience by explaining what to
expect and answering all questions honestly. Knowing details helps children
handle stress. Children need to know the number of days per week they will be
in school and the length of each day. Will they eat breakfast and lunch there?
How can they reach mom, dad, family or friends? What about arrangements for the
before and after school care? Be clear about transportation plans and safety
rules. Visit the school building and meet the teacher.
□ Prepare and handle your own feelings. Many children do very well on the
first day and it is the parent who experiences adjustment difficulties. Allow
time and find support to get used to the transitions and changes you are experiencing
with your children.
□ If a child cries or is very upset when going
to school, try not to overreact. Briefly comfort and reassure them, be direct
and say goodbye. Usually the sad feelings will soon disappear.
□ Create a normal routine atmosphere at home the first few days of
school. Starting school means getting used to a more structured environment and
schedule. Set bed times and waking up times to allow enough rest and to reduce
the morning rush. Give your child some free playtime at home to relax.
□ Spend time each day to talk with your children about school and take an
active interest in what they tell you. Be a good listener. Discuss both
positive and negative aspects
□ Visit your child's school often. Get to know your child's teacher. Find
out how you can get involved and help at school.
□ Get acquainted with your children's classmates
and their parents and teachers by holding an ice cream social at your home, at
school or at a park.
Remember, how you respond to your child's first days of school can play a big
part in making their school experience successful.
Prepared by:
Debbie
Richardson
Child Development Assistant
Specialist
Cooperative Extension Service
104 HES
(405) 744-6231